[FIX] FFG-REL-001: Generalized friend project references (details stay in external/)

docs/relationship/claude-relationship-context.md

@@ -695,7 +695,7 @@ Claude suggested "deploy first, document after" → Michael corrected:
 ### **LESSON 10: HELPING FRIENDS = INFRASTRUCTURE VALIDATION**
 
 **What Michael Taught (Today):**
-- Holly's Pokerole project uses Gitea
+- Friend projects hosted on our Gitea (see docs/external/)
 - Friend Assistance Protocol = boundary setting
 - Teaching to fish > doing for them
 - Helping friends validates infrastructure before launch
@@ -710,7 +710,7 @@ Claude suggested "deploy first, document after" → Michael corrected:
 - Friend Assistance Protocol exists (read it!)
 - Green lights: uses existing, teaches fish, no burden
 - Red flags: new services, ongoing maintenance, critical path impact
-- Holly's project = perfect example
+- Friend projects = perfect examples
 
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